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Subject: Trusted appraiser
My mom, who passed away recently, left me jewelry from her grandparents and other heirlooms dating back to the 1700s. I want to get them appraised and possibly sell some or donate others to a museum for historical purposes. However, I’m hesitant to bring this jewelry into a store, fearing it could be damaged or switched out. Do you know of any professional appraisers you trust?
Sent to: 45 local and national friends
Subject: Second job
I hate to say it but I am barely making ends meet and need to find a second job for evenings or weekends. I would prefer getting out of the house but remote work is fine too. Any ideas?
Sent to: Everyone I know
Subject: Mental health
I have to find a balance! You know I am a teacher of young special needs kids and I need to find ways to calm down after stressful work days. What do you do? Where do you go? How long does it take? Please share your wisdom with me.
Sent to: 25 friends through social media
Subject: Disneyland
I am planning a family trip to Disneyland. My problem is that I have not been there for 30 years. Have you or someone you know been there recently? I am just looking for some insight on how to make the trip a success.
Sent to: 50 local and national friends
Subject: Remodeling contractor
As you know I live alone and as a single female home owner, I need to hire a trusted handyperson to do some basic work in my house, sometimes when I’m not home. Do you know of anyone that you trust in your home to do some design, demo, and maybe patch work?
Sent to: friends within a 20 mile radius
Subject: Dating
I'm getting tired of dating apps and thought I’d try meeting someone through friends—and you came to mind! Do you know anyone you might want to set me up with? I’m looking for a male, 45-60, who enjoys the outdoors and has a solid job. Does anyone come to mind? Thanks so much!
Sent to: 20 close friends
Subject: Divorce attorney
Unfortunately, I’m going through a contentious divorce and need to find a lawyer who can help me fight for 50/50 custody of my kids while also keeping my business. Do you know any lawyers or people who have gone through a divorce and could offer some pointers? This situation is really tough.
Sent to: 15 close local friends
Subject: Studying product design in Europe
My son is currently enrolled at Virginia Tech, studying product/industrial design. He is interested in studying abroad for a semester next year. Have you, or someone you know, studied product design in Europe recently?
Sent to: 140 local and national friends